No White Policy For Our Moment

Let's talk about common thing, about marriage. I have this idea just about witnessing my friends and cousins wed this year, it's amazing how things grows so fast. I think marriage was a one of life cycle schematic for every people, and by choice. Marriage wasn't a standard to determined someones success life. Yeah...it's a personal choice. Personal choice contained many aspects; dependency, family's legacy, and economical surpasses. Especially for a woman, err...i guess. The sucks phenomenon is the woman factor, in our society, woman in early 20's-30's should be married, above that years usually degraded as something low, unimportant, and to be worst, unwanted. 100% myth if you asked me.

Right...i don't wanna buy that crazy old people standard, as every human being have their own way to survive their life. If we are marriage, well, get it right! Never took some marital status as a 'branded-label', big no-no! I saw many unconditional marriage in my family that turns to worst cases scenario, divorce. Marriage should be taken seriously, 'cause we aren't 'in relationship' state of mind anymore. Just the same range, if we're not marriage yet, don't be so desperate about it, chill...relax yourself dude, it's not a first class life stage anyway. Yup...! And more importantly, choose your bride/groom VERY...VERY WISELY. It's good if they're your first love, or someone you really, really love. If we're just blatantly choose our marriage partner as 'labelling' target, and then if something bad happens we will regretful for the rest of our life, you know...just like a monkey trap. The horror, i don't want to imagine it.

I took the jasmine confetti from restaurant in Jakarta (i'll told about it soon...) and i just thinking about wedding bouquet. Yeah...the one that all the single ladies always hunt after the bride throw them into the air. I like the white serene effect, it's suite very well on the wedding dress (traditionally on white), as myself, i always imagine that i'll have a black roses as my hand bouquet, with the black-n'-neon green as wedding dress, oh yeah..., bloody suite isn't it (err...my parents will go mad on that idea). Maybe, that's just my 2-cent idea, but traditional standard sometimes getting bored this days, why not spiced-up a little bit, marriage is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, GO WILD GUYS!

PS: Proper marriage should have a good senses in the ears;



1. Yeah...walk the aisle jingle themed, very melodic, nice pianoesque too.



2. Confession, for private promises, quite meaningful.

3. Yeah...from the groom to the bride cheesy moment.

4. Now...from the bride to the groom 
happily-ever-after moment.

5. After all the commotions you know what
happens next, right? 

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